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Wolfie
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posted 05-23-2005 08:04 AM     Profile for Wolfie   Author's Homepage     Send New Private Message   Edit/Delete Post   Reply With Quote
Last night I dreamt that my boyfriend cheated on me. I know he's not actually capable of doing it in real life but it's still really distressing me.

Earlier this month he broke up with me by telling me that he didn't love me anymore. A few days later he ran all over town to find me and basically told me that the reason he broke up with me was because he was so scared that if he did something wrong that I would break up with him in anger and never speak to him again.

Ever since then I've become dependent, needy, insecure, and annoying (to me). I really really hate it.

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Write a nutty poem,
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Do a loony-goony dance
'Cross the kitchen floor,
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Cacophonous
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posted 05-23-2005 09:05 AM     Profile for Cacophonous   Author's Homepage     Send New Private Message   Edit/Delete Post   Reply With Quote
All men are capable of cheating. I think you meant that you are convinced he would never do it.

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J0SH
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posted 05-23-2005 09:14 AM     Profile for J0SH   Author's Homepage     Send New Private Message   Edit/Delete Post   Reply With Quote
The breaking up thing because he was scared seems kind of weird - are you sure he didn't come running back to you because things didn't work out with the other girl? i'd hope not but it does sound suspicious.

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RoGuEBiTcH
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posted 05-23-2005 11:11 AM     Profile for RoGuEBiTcH   Author's Homepage     Send New Private Message   Edit/Delete Post   Reply With Quote
I agree with what Josh and Cac have said. I'm almost in a similar situation right now, so I sympathize with how you're feeling. It's really hard.

Try doing something for yourself - exercise, create, hell - clean your place if it makes you feel good. A little self esteem boost can give you a lot of strength and make you feel better about things. You can do it

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AcidWarp
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posted 05-24-2005 02:45 AM     Profile for AcidWarp   Author's Homepage     Send New Private Message   Edit/Delete Post   Reply With Quote
You know, maybe the breakup was so that he could absolve himself of the moral issues surrounding infidelity so that he COULD have a roll with another woman. If you aren't together, then he can't cheat on you.

That being said, that's not likely what went down. I did something similar once. Pulled away from someone I loved cause I was scared.

Then again, it IS possible that your subconscious is trying to tell you something. Has he been behaving. . .odd lately?

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